
Buyer's guide
Your next home, without the guesswork.
Buying a home is the biggest purchase most people ever make, and the process is designed by people who do it every day for people who do it once. Here is the whole map, start to finish, in plain English — and what it looks like to have a REALTOR® and a licensed contractor on your side of the table.
The buyer's journey
Six steps from “maybe” to the front door
Most buyers tell us the hardest part wasn't the money — it was not knowing what came next. So here is what comes next, every time, with the decisions you'll face at each step.
- Step 01
Deciding to buy
Rent going up again? Out of room? Ready to stop moving every two years? Whatever is pushing you, get clear on it first — the reason you're buying shapes the budget, the neighborhood and the kind of home that will actually fit your life for the next five to ten years.
This is also where we have the honest conversation about timing. Sometimes the right answer is now. Sometimes it is six months of saving, or paying down a card so your rate improves. We'll tell you either way; a buyer who waits and comes back is a better outcome than one who stretches and regrets it.
- How long you plan to stay — under three years, buying rarely beats renting once you count closing costs
- What you need versus what you'd like: bedrooms, a yard, a commute you can live with
- Whether a fixer, a condo or a move-in-ready home fits your budget and your patience
- Step 02
Getting your finances ready
Before you fall for a kitchen, we get the numbers straight: what you've saved, what you earn, and what you can comfortably carry every month — not the ceiling a lender will approve you for. Those are two very different figures, and the second one is how people end up house-poor.
In San Diego the monthly cost is more than the mortgage. Property tax runs a little over 1% of the purchase price per year, newer communities in the South Bay and East County often carry Mello-Roos, and condos add HOA dues. We put all of it on one page so there are no surprises after you move in.
- Down payment options — it's rarely the 20% everyone fears; 3–5% conventional, 3.5% FHA and 0% VA are all real paths
- First-time buyer and down-payment-assistance programs you may qualify for
- Closing costs — typically 1–3% of the price for buyers, on top of the down payment
- The true monthly number: principal, interest, tax, insurance, HOA, Mello-Roos
- Step 03
Getting pre-approved
A pre-approval letter is what turns you from a browser into a buyer in a seller's eyes. A lender verifies your income, credit and assets and tells you exactly what you can borrow — which means when the right home appears, you can write an offer the same day instead of scrambling.
Not all lenders are equal. A local lender who answers the phone on a Saturday and can close in 21 days is often worth more to your offer than a quarter point of rate. We work with a few who explain things properly, and we'll introduce you — no obligation.
- Pre-qualification is a guess; pre-approval is verified. Sellers only care about the second one
- Get pre-approved before you tour — it protects you from falling for a home outside your range
- Don't open new credit, change jobs or move large sums between accounts until you close
- Step 04
The search — the fun part
Now we go looking. You'll get listings that match what you actually asked for, a heads-up on homes before they hit the portals when we hear about them, and we'll walk them together. Photos lie; a 20-minute visit tells you what the light is like at 4 pm and whether the freeway is audible from the backyard.
This is where having a contractor in the family pays off. Eddie is a licensed General Contractor, and when we walk a home together we can tell you what that dated kitchen really costs to redo, whether the crack in the stucco is cosmetic, and which “needs TLC” listing is hiding real value — and which one is hiding a foundation problem.
The contractor's eyeBrowse the neighborhood guides →Buyers we work with routinely pass on the shiny flip and buy the solid house next door for less, because someone told them what the shine was covering.
- Step 05
Making an offer
When you find it, we move. We pull the comparable sales, read the listing agent, and build an offer that is competitive without overpaying — price is only one lever. Close date, contingency periods, an appraisal gap, a clean pre-approval and a personal note can each move a seller as much as money can.
We explain every term before you sign: what an inspection contingency protects, what waiving one exposes you to, how an escalation clause works, and when it's smarter to walk away. Then we handle the negotiation so you don't have to.
- Contingencies — inspection, appraisal and loan — are your exits; shortening them makes you stronger, removing them makes you exposed
- Earnest money in San Diego is typically 1–3% of the price and is at risk only if you back out outside your contingencies
- In a multiple-offer situation, terms and certainty often beat the highest number
- Step 06
Escrow to keys
Offer accepted — now the part with the paperwork. A typical San Diego escrow runs about 30 days: inspections in the first week or two, the appraisal, your loan going through underwriting, any repair negotiations, then the final walkthrough and signing. It is a lot of moving pieces on a clock, and our job is to track every one so nothing slips.
We attend the inspections with you — and Eddie reads inspection reports for a living, so you'll know which findings are normal for a 1960s house in La Mesa and which ones are a real negotiation. Then escrow closes, the keys are yours, and we're genuinely thrilled for you.
- Week 1–2: general, roof, sewer and termite inspections; request repairs or credits
- Week 2–3: appraisal and loan underwriting; keep your finances exactly as they were
- Final days: walkthrough, signing at the escrow office, funding, recording — then keys
What it really costs
The numbers nobody puts on the listing
Rough guides for San Diego County. Every home and loan is different — we'll run your real figures before you make an offer.
- Down payment
- 3–20% of the price depending on the loan. Under 20% on a conventional loan adds mortgage insurance until you reach 20% equity.
- Closing costs
- Typically 1–3% of the price: lender fees, title and escrow, prepaid interest, the first year of insurance and a tax reserve.
- Property tax
- About 1.1–1.25% of the purchase price per year, reassessed at your price when you buy. Newer master-planned communities can add Mello-Roos on top.
- HOA dues
- Condos and townhomes: often $300–700 a month, sometimes more. We read the HOA's financials and minutes before you commit.
- Inspections
- $500–1,200 for a general inspection plus sewer, roof or termite as needed. Money well spent — and Eddie is there for it.
- Your agent
- Since 2024 buyers sign a written agreement with their agent before touring, and compensation is negotiable. In many sales the seller offers to cover it; we'll walk you through exactly how it works before anything is signed.
How long it takes
From first call to keys
- Pre-approval
- 1–3 days once the lender has your documents
- The search
- Anywhere from two weeks to a few months — the market and your must-haves decide
- Offer to acceptance
- Usually 1–3 days; longer if there are competing offers
- Escrow
- About 30 days is typical; 21 is possible with a strong lender, and cash can close faster
Questions buyers ask
Do I really need 20% down?
No. Twenty percent avoids mortgage insurance, but conventional loans start at 3–5% down, FHA at 3.5%, and VA loans need nothing down for eligible veterans. Several down-payment-assistance programs also apply in San Diego County. The right amount is the one that leaves you a cushion after you close.
How much are closing costs for a buyer in San Diego?
Plan on roughly 1–3% of the purchase price, on top of your down payment. That covers lender fees, title and escrow, prepaid interest, your first year of homeowner's insurance and an initial property-tax reserve. Your lender's estimate will itemise it before you commit.
Do I pay for my buyer's agent?
It's negotiable and put in writing before we tour. Since the 2024 rule changes, buyers sign an agreement with their agent that states the compensation; in many transactions the seller agrees to cover it as part of the offer. We'll explain every option plainly before you sign anything.
Should I buy a fixer?
Sometimes it's the best value in the neighborhood, and sometimes it's a money pit with fresh paint. The difference is the scope. Because Eddie is a licensed General Contractor, we can walk it with you and put a realistic number and timeline on the work before you write the offer — not after.
How long does escrow take?
About 30 days is the San Diego norm for a financed purchase. A well-prepared buyer with a responsive local lender can close in 21; cash purchases can close in under two weeks. Inspections happen in the first week or two, so that's when most decisions get made.
What if the appraisal comes in low?
Your appraisal contingency lets you renegotiate the price, cover the gap yourself, or walk away with your deposit. We'll talk through the likely appraisal before you offer, so an “appraisal gap” is a decision you make deliberately, not a surprise.
Ready to start?
Let's take step one together
Tell us where you are — just curious, saving up, or ready to get pre-approved. No pressure and no commitment, just a straight conversation about what makes sense for you.